What to do when you experience sudden loss of a child?

We are living in uncertain times. It's one thing after another. We hear about fatal accidents, child abductions, people missing, shootings, etc., However, we believe that tragic things won't happen to us. Especially, not to our children.

Unfortunately, it can and it sometimes does. I wish I could tell you, that it gets easier and the pain passes quickly. Unfortunately, making it through one second, then one minute, then one hour at a time is all you hope for. Let the people that love you be near you. Do not isolate. This will help you stay strong for them.

I strongly suggest talking to a psychiatrist. Speaking to someone that has helped parents deal with excruciating pain and a loss that does not make sense does help. Little by little, you will understand that you are not going crazy, and will learn about the painfully complicated grieving process. Pick a good doctor, that makes it a safe place to talk about all you are feelings. Guilt, anger, hopelessness, deep sorrow etc.

It's hard to talk to family during your critical moments, since you know they are also hurting by your side.

My relationship with God kept me alive. I prayed and read scriptures, spoke to Him all the time. I leaned on my Heavenly Father and asked for His peace.

"And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:7